How about a payment plan with the Addy seller? Just let her know you can send her $20 now and a little bit each month until you've paid for her. That's what I did when I bought an Elizabeth collection from a Yahoo AGdoll Group member. I just paid it in 3 months and she was okay with that. I hope you can figure out a way to pay for Addy. Since you have 2 little boys, I think I would try and keep Jack. They will probably like playing with him and it's fun to have a boy doll to make up stories with the dolls.